Right guys, it’s time for a lesson you should remember. It’s time for a lesson in the REALITY behind talking to these beautiful women – those Ukraine women you hope to date. You’ve heard the good stuff and the bad stuff – the scams and the happy ever after’s. Now you want the truth.
I’ve spoken to a few Ukraine women in my time and although I’m happily married now to a woman that not only rocks my world but my bed too, providing me with a family I couldn’t be happier with, in a home that is always clean and tidy and well cared for. I almost blew it with Svetlana, and I did blow it with a number of other girls before her.
Do you want the truth about dating Ukraine women? The real truth? The ugly truth? Are you sure you’re even ready for it?
Ukraine women are easily offended if you aren’t intelligent enough to hold a decent conversation with them. I learned this early on. I also learned that Russia and Ukraine are two very different places and you should NEVER EVER think they are the same place, let alone say that to one of the girls you wish to date. There are a lot of differences including traditions and cultures, and can be the start of a whole bunch of misunderstandings.
Before you start talking to one of these women, before you even begin to sign up to that Ukraine dating website, make sure you do your research. At least have a quick look on the internet to find out more about the country these girls were born and grew up in.
Do you want to know what else really seems to offend them? Assuming they are just looking for a rich husband to take care of them. When I first started dating Ukraine women, I assumed it was my money and my status (I was pretty high up in the company and earned a good pay check) that she would be impressed by and it’s not that at all. It’s easy to assume it’s that with all the stuff you will have ready about Ukraine mail order brides, but this is a really old-fashioned notion and isn’t one that sits well with these exotic beauties.
My wife has a good career as a beautician and she earns only a little less than what I earn. Plus she manages to keep my house clean and take care of my children. She has built herself her own little empire and she very rarely calls on me for anything she needs. So that’s the whole rich-husband wish out the window. My wife costs me and did cost me very little 🙂
Oh, they don’t like the “L-word” too early on either. Love, I mean. The words “I love you” are something that aren’t easily thrown around by these Ukrainian women, and they will only say it to you when they really, truly mean it. This means you could go forever waiting for her to say it… I did. Don’t try and throw the love thing in too soon. They won’t like it and it just makes you come across desperate and needy. Plus, don’t ever say it if you don’t mean it. Or if you aren’t sure. Why would you break her heart like that? She’s not stupid and she will know as soon as she meets you.
Ukraine women can be difficult, but in my experience, they are well worth it. In fact, I wouldn’t even go as far as to say they were difficult women – they are just women that know what they want and won’t settle for anything less than they deserve, and quite rightly too!