It’s your profile that stands out more than your pictures will when it comes to Ukraine American dating. These girls, they’ve probably seen it all already. They’ve already been approached by hundreds of guys with rippling abs and bulging biceps and that’s fine – these guys might look good but they can’t always provide these women with everything they need.
One of my Ukraine ‘girlfriends’, Aida, once told me that she was drawn to my profile because it had made her laugh. I decided to go with the comedy approach to my profile and ‘About Me’ section, filling the space with witty little one-liners that were easy to understand on both sides of the ocean. My profile pictures were funny ones – ones of me either dressed up or pulling a silly face. There were a couple of more serious ones on there too, of course, but it just goes to show that it’s not all about the looks.
In order to make yourself appear a ‘catch’ to those beautiful Ukraine women, you need to believe your American ass is a catch! If you have no faith in your own ability to be a good lover, provider, protector, how can you expect her to have any faith in your ability? Don’t brag but at the same time, there have got to be a few things you’ve done in your life that you’re proud of. Show off those skills you have. That’s what she wants to see.
You also need to be honest. When I started ‘digitally dating’ Svetlana (my now-wife), I made myself out to be a lot trimmer than I actually was. I actually made myself out to be more important at my workplace than I was. She laughed about it when she found out but not all Ukraine women would have been so forgiving. In fact, I found a rare gem in Svetlana. Most Ukrainian girls aren’t so forgiving. They don’t like being lied to – another lesson I found out the hard way.
You should also be realistic. These are women that want to live a certain way – they want to be stable and secure in a home with you, for you to be their knight in shining armor as such, and if you can’t provide such a lifestyle, you should make her aware. You are expecting her to leave her family and friends and drop everything for a new life with you in your country… The least you could do is be honest and set realistic expectations for her life with you.
I’ve already mentioned that having a sense of humor about things is a great idea but honestly, I can’t stress the importance of this enough. A good sense of humor will permeate through even the toughest of language barriers and a smile or a laugh can work wonders for your sex appeal.
If you aren’t using a translator when talking to your new Ukraine beauty and are relying instead on the help of translation services, always translate the letter or message before you send it to make sure that it can be misconceived the wrong way. Obviously shorter messages don’t call for such a thing but with longer ones, it’s easy to misread what someone is saying when there are no eyes to look into for clarification, or no mouth to check whether a smile is present.
Ukraine American dating isn’t really that difficult once you get the hang of it. It’s learning the differences between the culture of these beautiful exotic women and the culture of the women you are used to dating. Once you’ve gotten over that, you’re already halfway there!